Even if you say the same thing to your parents, you are still a lizard, a chameleon, a lizard.
This is to say that the child has 'done', what is to be done? Try to understand the difference between doing and observing, holding.
Saying these things to the ears of the boy and girl all the time, his deep love relationship with you gradually ends. There is born a relationship of debt, domination, gratitude. The child understands that what you are doing today, tomorrow he will have to repay this debt. It is a matter of 'must do', not love, but realization.
'Do' can be said to be the future of the house next door. But keep in mind that there is very little 'do' in the dictionary that can live well. They do and forget. They do not calculate.
Your child is part of your body. Ever said 'I did this for myself'? To whom do you repay the debt for yourself?
By keeping this child under constant pressure, you may be able to achieve many things, except love.
Remember, the day you learn to say 'I can't do' without doing a duty without eliminating the thought of 'doing' even after performing 99 duties, the child will take raw. If not, winter is coming. Plant tomato trees, plant eggplants. Keep the tree that will give good yield, pull out the tree that will not give. You're happy, I'm happy too.
